As we work on setting goals and moving forward for the upcoming New Year, I am reminded of this timely advice: "Don't gossip, even about yourself." Why? Because everything you focus on you become. If you dwell on drama and bad times, constantly telling everyone how horrible your life is, you put energy and focus on those situations and like a magnet draw more such experiences into your life.
Why do bad situations keep repeating like this? For a number of reasons, but primarily it comes down to choices. If you put a negative spin on everything like, "I can never find a nice guy, all men are shit!" Then it becomes a self fulling prophecy. I have seen women ignore nice men in favor of "shit men" because that is what they subconsciously think they deserve. Why? Because they have accepted it as a core belief and all of the self talk constantly reaffirms this. Then add in all the energy you are sending out to the universe continuously telling the universe that "all men are shit" and therefore you want to have those kinds of lessons. Easy peasy- ask and you will receive!
As I teach in manifesting class, it's the same as sitting in a cafe, and asking the waiter for a class of water. Why would you be surprised to get a glass of water? Same with the Universe, ask for "shit men" by constantly bitching and complaining about them and you will be served up a large portion of "shit men"!
NOTE: I'm not picking on men here, there are so many nice men out there! Ladies you have no idea! It's just a common term/theme I hear often, so I thought I would address it.
What to do about this? First stop complaining and talking trash! If you are in a bad situation then you only have a few choices: 1. Change it 2. Leave 3. Accept it.
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Happy Manifesting and Reiki Blessings,
The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world.
Reiki Master Teacher,
"Healing is a matter of time, but it is sometimes also a matter of opportunity."
“To teach is to learn twice.”
“Because you are alive, everything is possible.” ― Thích Nhất Hạnh
"The purpose of a spiritual teacher is not to tell you how to think, but to give you questions to think upon."
- Sarah Mercer
“Instructions for living a life.
Tell about it.”